Crying in H Mart

1. General Impressions

Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.

• What aspects of Zauner’s story do you find most relatable or universal? How does her journey through grief resonate with broader experiences of love and loss?
• In what ways does Zauner explore the complexities of family relationships, especially considering cultural differences? How do her relationships with her mother and father differ in terms of support and connection?
• Zauner’s pursuit of Korean cooking and traditional recipes becomes a way to remember her mother and feel close to her. What are your thoughts on how cultural practices, like food, can become a bridge to people we’ve lost?

2. Personal Reflection and Connection

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

• How does Zauner’s connection to Korean food as a symbol of family and heritage resonate with your own experiences of food and culture? Are there specific dishes or traditions that remind you of your own loved ones?
• Zauner reflects on her desire to win her mother’s approval and the conflicts they faced because of their differences. How do you relate to her journey toward understanding her mother, and have you experienced a similar journey with someone in your life? 
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